Don’t Turn Love Into A Relationship

An article from a newsletter... not my original creation...
but it makes sense..

Love comes like a strong breeze and carries away two lovers to unknown dimensions. Lovers go through an experience peak and then need to settle down. In the process, they start feeling bored, craving the same peak yet again and again. When they don’t reach it, they feel frustrated and fall into the ditch of misery.
Peaks in love are experienced when lovers open their wings to fly high into the sky together. There’s a whole sky of freedom and togetherness that they feel in each other’s company. But the moment they start clinging to each other and suppress freedom, love falls into an abysmal valley of misery. Then they wonder what happened to their love! The clinging starts clipping their wings, killing their love.
True love is unconditional, and based on an individual’s freedom. Two persons can be very loving together. The more loving they are, the lower the possibility of any relationship. The more loving they are, the greater the freedom between them. The more loving they are, the thinner the prospect of any demand, domination, expectation. Naturally then, there is no question of frustration.
Remember this: Don’t have any expectations. Love because love is your own inner growth. When you love, you call your spring of growth closer. Your love will help you grow towards more light, more truth, more freedom. Love but don’t ever create a relationship!
A relationship is a part of the business world. A slight change in the situation, and it evaporates. It has no solidity. If love comes spontaneously, suddenly, like a fountain, asking for nothing in return, then it is one of the greatest treasures. Love is a fire. The purer it is, the better it burns all riddles, all problems. But love as a relationship creates problems, riddled with all sorts of undesirable things.
Remember this: Love is capable of destroying everything else, just don’t let it become a relationship. If you do, love will disappear and in its place will come politics and manipulation. Then, your problems will only increase.

XYZ says: “I am against all kinds of relationships. For example, I don’t like the word ‘friendship’ but I love the word ‘friendliness’. Friendliness is a quality within you; friendship becomes a burdensome relationship.”
XYZ elaborates: “Friendship is a relationship. You can be in that relationship with a few people. Friendliness is a quality, not a relationship. It has nothing to do with anybody else. It is basically your inner quality. You can be friendly with many, many people. You can be friendly even when you are alone. You cannot be in friendship when you are alone—the other is needed—but friendliness is a kind of fragrance. A flower blooms; nobody passes by, yet it is fragrant. It matters not whether anyone comes to know of it; being fragrant is its quality.”

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If...

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man!
- Rudyard Kipling

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Rain, Rain .. Come Again..

A lightening here, a thunder there,
Giving little babies a scare.
Clouds gather in a sheep-like huddle,
While the dear ones cuddle.

Dancing down from their heavenly abode,
Running through the foliage,
Hurrying rain-man set up the gauge.
Quenching the parched earth,
Making all children shout in mirth.

A drizzle here, a downpour there,
Rain-gods are present everywhere.
Drizzling and dripping all day,
Just then comes out a little sun-ray,
Leaves flaunt their slivery shine,
Droplets look like diamonds on the vine.
A glimpse of the rainbow makes my day,
In minutes it vanishes away!

They tickle your face with surprises,
And tingle as if you'd been kissed.
Joys of rain come in all sizes,
Cycling,football & long walks on my list.
My new dress is in vain,
But I just love the rain.. ;)

When life's fubar...

In the worst times, in glumness, melancholy, when im blue... booohoohoo :(
one of the most crappy times, like some 1000 dementors hovering above..
yikes!! when life's fucked up royally...

FUBAR [f(ucked) u(p) b(eyond) a(ll) r(ecognition)] rather!!

my dearest friend still stands by me, to give me the much needed support,
nopes... no words would suffice the description,
golden hearts cant be described in words..





"And now I know I'll never be blue
coz I found a true friend in you"

Ganpati Bappa Morya!!

Vakratunda Mahakaaya Suryakoti-sama-prabha Nirvghnam kuru me deva Sarva-karyeshu Sarvada

'Oh, the curved-faced, gigantic Lord Ganesha,
you are like a million suns in brilliance;
always kindly free us from hurdles in all our endeavors.'

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To those who dont really find any difference between 'love' and 'lust'


Yes, I agree, there isn't much difference...

Lust is when you love someone for whats on the outside.
Love is when you lust for whats on the inside.

Happy Dreams!!

Its about 3 a.m.
Off to sleep, After a day's work,
or killed time all day,
or maybe its been just another day.

As sleepy head drops on the pillow,
my mind wanders into the past..
Memories, scenes, flash involuntarily,
Some I've been a part of,
some I wish and long for, And
some that just appear and go by..

Of all these, memories are the ones
the best ones, the most valued by me.
Silly jokes, arbit talk, b'day bumps,
tears n' support in life's bumps,
Admist fights, arguments..
Smiles, laughter, hugs saying it all.
No words, just the presence,
the warm caring silence.

Makes me smile again in my deepest slumbers,
Does anyone have such friends, who make you smile,
even after they've gone, drifted apart,
Distances and spaces so large,
today we are poles apart.
But the happy memories,
still as fresh as dew in my heart.
I now realise my friends arent away,
they are still around me,
Just like the wind, which is always around
Can be felt, but cant be seen.

Happy memories make me smile again
and wipe my tears away.
Coz bestest friends are so precious
May these dreams hold me in the pain,
In fear and when I go astray
May I have Happy Dreams tonight!